shame

/ʃeim/
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shame

It's a shame you can't come to the party.

Definition
  1. Noun:

    • A painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior: The emotion one feels when they have done something they believe is wrong, embarrassing, or inadequate.
    • A loss of respect or honor; disgrace: A state of being dishonored or disgraced, often in the eyes of others.
    • A regrettable or unfortunate situation: Used to express disappointment or pity about a situation.
  2. Verb:

    • To cause (someone) to feel shame: To make someone feel ashamed, humiliated, or embarrassed.
    • To bring disgrace on; to dishonor: To cause a loss of respect or honor for someone or something.
    • To force (someone) into action by causing feelings of shame: To compel someone to do something by making them feel ashamed if they do not.
Examples of Usage
  • Noun:

    • He felt a deep sense of shame after lying to his friend. (He experienced a painful emotion of guilt.)
    • The scandal brought shame upon the entire organization. (The scandal caused dishonor for the organization.)
    • It's a shame you can't come to the party. (It is an unfortunate situation that you cannot come.)
  • Verb:

    • Her harsh criticism shamed him into silence. (Her criticism made him feel so ashamed that he became silent.)
    • His actions shamed his family's good name. (His actions dishonored his family's reputation.)
    • They shamed the opposing team with a score of 10-0. (They defeated the other team by such a wide margin that it was embarrassing for them.)
Advanced Usage
  • "To put someone/something to shame": To be so much better than someone or something that it makes them seem inadequate.

    • Her dedication puts the rest of us to shame. (Her dedication is so great it makes us feel inadequate.)
  • "Shame on you/him/her/them!": A strong expression used to tell someone they should feel ashamed for their behavior.

    • Shame on you for speaking to her like that! (You should feel ashamed for speaking to her in that manner.)
  • "For shame!": An old-fashioned exclamation expressing strong disapproval.

    • For shame! You know better than to act that way. (You should be ashamed! You know that behavior is wrong.)
Variants and Related Words
  • Ashamed (adjective): Feeling shame or guilt.

    • He was ashamed of his behavior. (He felt guilty about what he did.)
  • Shameful (adjective): Deserving or causing shame; disgraceful.

    • It was a shameful act of betrayal. (It was a disgraceful act.)
  • Shameless (adjective): Showing a lack of shame; brazen.

    • He told a shameless lie. (He told a lie without any embarrassment.)
Synonyms
  • Noun: Disgrace, dishonor, humiliation, embarrassment, guilt.
  • Verb: Humiliate, embarrass, disgrace, dishonor, mortify.
Related Phrasal Verbs/Constructions
  • Shame into (doing something): To persuade someone to do something by making them feel ashamed if they do not.

    • The public outcry shamed the company into changing its policy. (The public protest made the company feel compelled to change its policy due to shame.)
  • Shame out of (doing something): To deter someone from doing something by making them feel ashamed about it.

    • Her friends tried to shame her out of spreading rumors. (Her friends tried to stop her from spreading rumors by making her feel it was shameful.)
Related Idioms
  • A crying shame: A very great shame or pity.

    • It's a crying shame that such a beautiful building was demolished. (It is a great pity that the building was destroyed.)
  • Have no shame: To be completely without shame; to be brazen or shameless.

    • He has no shame—he'll ask for anything. (He is completely without embarrassment.)
  • Shame-faced: Showing shame through one's expression or demeanor.

    • He gave a shame-faced apology. (He apologized while looking ashamed.)
shame

It's a shame you can't come to the party.

Noun
  1. an unfortunate development
    • it's a pity he couldn't do it
  2. a state of dishonor
    • one mistake brought shame to all his family
    • suffered the ignominy of being sent to prison
  3. a painful emotion resulting from an awareness of inadequacy or guilt
Verb
  1. surpass or beat by a wide margin
  2. cause to be ashamed
  3. compel through a sense of shame
    • She shamed him into making amends
  4. bring shame or dishonor upon
    • he dishonored his family by committing a serious crime